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Gem Bowtie Leather BDSM Collar
Gem Bowtie Leather BDSM Collar
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Gem Bowtie Collar for Romantic Styling
The bowtie detail and heart-shaped crystal pendant create a softer, more emotional focal point for refined collar play.
Slim Leather Collar for Gentle Control
The 0.5-inch genuine leather band keeps the collar light, centered, and suitable for composed leash guidance.
Colorful BDSM Collar with Matching Leash
The violet, blue, and red options give this collar expressive styling choices for romantic dominance and visual-focused scenes.
Product Specifications
Material: Genuine leather
Construction: Slim leather collar with bowtie detail, heart-shaped crystal pendant, metal leash attachment, and matching leash
Color Options: Violet, Blue, Red
Hardware: Heart-shaped crystal pendant and metal leash attachment
Included Pieces: Leather collar and matching leash
Collar Width
0.5 in / 1.3 cm
Wearable Size
12.6–15 in / 32–38 cm
Leash Length
45.3 in / 115 cm
Bondage Collar Measurement Guide
Bondage Collar Measurement Guide
At Sex Paddle, all our bondage collars feature an adjustable design to ensure a secure and comfortable fit for most neck sizes.
- Measure your neck circumference – Use a soft measuring tape and wrap it around the base of your neck where the collar will sit. Keep the tape snug but not tight, and record the measurement in inches or centimeters.
- Check our adjustable range – Each collar listing includes a minimum and maximum adjustment range. Make sure your neck measurement falls within that range before ordering.
- Check collar width – Our collars come in different widths (1", 1.5", and 2"). Wider collars distribute pressure more evenly, while narrower collars allow greater freedom of movement.
- Apply the finger rule – Once fitted, you should be able to slide 1–2 fingers comfortably between the collar and your neck. One finger means a snug fit; two fingers means a looser, more relaxed wear.
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Bondage Collar Buying Guide
How Material Affects Comfort and Durability
Adjustability and Fit Explained
Style, Finish, and Hardware Details
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Why We Choose Premium Materials
At Sex Paddle, we carefully select every material for its feel, safety, and durability. Our bondage collars are crafted from genuine leather, eco-friendly PU leather, body-safe silicone, and solid metal hardware — each chosen to deliver a secure hold
Bondage Collar Care Guide
To keep your bondage collar in top condition, wipe it clean with a dry or lightly damp cloth after use. For genuine leather collars, apply a leather conditioner occasionally to prevent cracking. PU leather and silicone collars can be gently wiped with mild soap and water.
Frequently Asked Questions
Who should choose this gem bowtie BDSM collar?
Choose this collar if you want a romantic leather BDSM collar with a bowtie detail, heart-shaped crystal pendant, and refined visual presentation.
Is this bowtie collar beginner-friendly?
Yes. The slim 0.5-inch leather band and soft visual style make it approachable for beginners using gentle leash guidance and clear communication.
What does the crystal heart pendant add?
The heart-shaped crystal pendant adds symbolic focus, color contrast, and a jewelry-like detail without making the collar feel heavy or overly hardware-driven.
How should this leather collar be used safely?
Fit the collar securely without restricting breathing, swallowing, speech, or natural neck movement. Keep the bowtie and pendant centered and avoid sudden leash force.
SEXPADDLE Showcase – Design,Feel, and Craftsmanship
Premium bondage collars designed for body-safe wear, adjustable comfort, and lasting durability. Watch the showcase to see the design, fit, craftsmanship, hardware details, and care guidance behind SEX PADDLE bondage collar collections.